I silence the voice of self-criticism.
I don’t even hear self-criticism speak when it tries to get my attention.
It doesn’t have anything good to say. All it does is paralyze me on the road to self-improvement.
I will not allow self criticism to stop progress again.
I stop critical thoughts from taking up valuable space in my mind.
I expose self-criticism when it comes disguised as self-reflection or self-improvement.
The difference between the voice of self-criticism and self-improvement is that self-criticism focuses on what I have done wrong.
Self-improvement looks to the future, my future.
Through positive reflection, I focus on my strengths to create a better me.
I avoid punishing myself or fixating about what I have done wrong in the past.
I strive to nurture my strong points and improve the other areas.
The voice of self-criticism attempts to fill me with shame by reminding me of my mistakes.
I boldly stand up to that voice by focusing on my positive interactions and successes, instead of repeating shameful thoughts over and again.
I surrender the areas of my life that need improvement to my Creator.
I give up trying to be perfect.
I surrender trying to be like anyone else
I surrender trying to be like everyone else.
I embrace being every bit of who I was created to be, no one on this planet can do that but me.
I will now extend grace and mercy toward myself.
I forgive myself for my shortcomings and accepting myself the way I am.
I acknowledge that I am a work in progress and I continue on my quest to be a better person.
I also acknowledge that every being on this planet has shortcomings and happens to be a work in progress. I am not alone.
I am strengthened by staying positive about the future.
Today, I shut down self-criticism and focus on positive thoughts.
I trade negative criticism for positive reflection in order to soar above and beyond my dreams.
What’s In There?:
1. Do I recognize the difference between self-criticism and self-improvement?
2. What are my three greatest strengths?
3. What can I do to silence the voice of self-criticism when it creeps into my thoughts?
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–Tonya GJ Prince has been a leading subject matter expert (SME) in domestic violence and sexual violence.
For over 25 years she has helped people heal, prevent, and overcome domestic and sexual violence.
In order to accomplish this mission, she founded several diverse & inclusive platforms designed to allow Survivors to use their own voices including;
WESurviveAbuse.com, SurvivorAffirmations.com, & BraidtheLadder.org.
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B.S. Organizational Management & Development/Bluefield College
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