I just got that word from a television movie called, “Something about Amelia.” Actually the movie came on t.v. the year prior.
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I always thought that people who molest children were bad people. I hated the people who molested me so they certainly qualified as bad. But, I also blamed myself. So, I thought I was bad too. So maybe I deserved it.
But when, “Something about Amelia”, aired in 1984, they cast Ted Danson as the sexually abusive father. That was brilliant! I didn’t think of him as a bad person. The fun dude from “Cheers”? No, wasn’t he the one always helping people solve problems or something?
The fun dude from “Cheers”? No, wasn’t he the one always helping people solve problems or something?
I really didn’t know. I was still a kid. Still watching, “Different Strokes,” and“The Facts of Life.” You know, trying to get my hair to look cute like Tootie’s and Willis’ girlfriend, Janet Jackson. Shrug.
But you get it right? He seemed nice. But he wasn’t he was molesting the his oldest daughter.
So brave Roxanne Zal told someone.
The mama hated Ted’s character.
Then she hated the victimized daugher.
Whew! This was waaaay bigger than my afterschool special stuff.
In fact, if my mom didn’t just happen to be out that night. I would never have been able to watch it.
In that year, I was suffering. Man, I was dying. Or at least constantly trying to figure how to do it. Luckily I wasn’t very good at it.
It’s Through the Fire
And that is when I figured out that there was no way out of this fire but through it. So I stood in the living room…..and my whole life… flipped over.
So What Have We Learned?
I don’t think that I ever would have made the connection but for, “Something about Amelia”. Specifically the genius casting of Ted Danson as the father.
People who commit acts of sexual violence may be very likable. In fact, they usually are. This is out of necessity.
It’s a mask y’all. A person who abuses children can appear to be a person with a very good character. They can even appear to love children.
Keep in mind, it could be a setup.
I’m not asking you to believe everything that you hear but at least stay curious and open minded.
Don’t fall for the con.
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