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What Racists and Child Rape Apologists Have in Common

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Tonya is a Social Justice Info Expert with over 23 years experience. She holds a BS in Organizational Management & Development. Her cat MiaBelle is her co-writer.
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Seems like all you have to do is make one simple statement:   The problem of black men who prey upon black  girls/boys must be discussed and addressed.   Just that statement forces hell to come undone.   I don’t think that the child rape apologists realize just how much they have in common with the racists that they despise. They use the same techniques and everything.    Distraction Racists:

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Everyday silence harvests its victims. Silence is a mortal illness. ~Natalia Ginzberg Courage is what it takes to stand up and speak. Courage is also what it takes to sit down and listen. ~Winston Churchill When I liberate others, I liberate myself. ~Fannie Lou Hamer Law and justice are not always the same. ~Gloria Steinem The world exists on three things: truth, justice, and peace.~Hebrew Proverbs The miracle of the wicked

Savvy Safety Tips Survivors Want Parents to Know this Holiday Season

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During the holidays children might visit family and friends.   Friends and family might come over to visit. They haven’t seen the children in a long time. We think nothing of it when they rush over to hug and perhaps kiss the children.   But wait. Do the kids want to be hugged and kissed?  Are they comfortable with this?  Not all children will be comfortable with this. A lot

How Survivors Can Preserve the Lessons from Their Experiences for Storytelling

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Now, in order to tell your story you are going to need the details of your stories. No one can tell your story like you can.  Survivors have some of the most fascinating stories ever.  Why?   1.Stories of good vs. evil are of great interest to people from the time that they are small children.  Good vs. evil is the core of most fairy tales. Sexual/domestic abuse is truly

Welcome the Week with Wisdom: 7 Little Known Quotes from Resilient Folks

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How  Perseverance Can Take You Directly to Your Passion and Purpose

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Survivors Welcome the Week with Wisdom: 7 Quotes on Healing

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And a bonus…… Make this week a great one. Take in all of the lessons and the blessings.  Fail, succeed, grow, survive, and thrive! You got this.

High Five From WESurvive: Lavon Morris Grant A Spiritual Miracle

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In early 2002 or so a group of us Women of Color working in sexual and domestic drove down from Virginia to North Carolina to a two-day conference.  It was a Women of Color conference.   There weren’t many being held in the southern region.  So at that time, nearby states drove to support one another just in case other people had “other things to do”.  (Still that way in too

No Justice, No Piece:  To Organizations, Movements, & Activists Who Are Not Yet Intersectional

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They say one of the number one reasons that marriages end is because of money.  I understand that.  When I first got married, money was a serious discussion. Right away one of our major differences was the way that we give to charities and causes.  We absolutely did not support the same types of causes.  So that caused friction.  Him: You don’t even know what those people are doing with

Is this the Real Truth about Sexual Violence that No One Wants to Say Out Loud

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Okay. True stuff.   I have a condition called fibromyalgia.   I know. Most people have never heard of it, but it has been known about for centuries.  All I can tell you is I am in physical pain 24/7 365.  I am exhausted, etc. etc. etc. But I am also happy, filled with joy, love, hope, gratitude, humor, wisdom, and curiosity. So, I’m blessed. But check this out:   About 2

Lena Dunham, The Duggars & Activists: The Low Down on a Divide in the Activist Community:

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Update: 10/24/2015 While researching another post I discovered that there were several other bloggers and websites who had taken the position that Lena Dunham, by her own admission, had groomed and molested her sister as a child. Add WESurviveAbuse to that list. While I don’t agree with every point of view put forth, I do agree that accountability is important to victims/Survivors and society.  Links are at the bottom of

Why I am So Thankful for the Sacrifices that Black Folks are Making to Fight Sexual Violence

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It stings.  It burns. It hurts like hell.  You will never forget the pain.  All wounds must be thoroughly cleaned in order to effectively heal. When I was a kid I cut my left knee on a metal sliding board. I remember screaming like somebody sliced my knee off.  The gash was no bigger than a dime, but I was one of those kind of girls. Intense and dramatic. My

CLOSED FOR RIOTS: How One Black Woman Riots Against Racism

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  Update:  This was published August 30, 2015. Remember that day? I do. Driver Samuel DuBose was shot in the head by a campus police officer in the head. It was on video. I didn’t want to see it, but it was everywhere. I sobbed that day.    Soon I had to find a way to deal. So I took it old school.  See, racism isn’t new but seeing it