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3 Powerful Black Women Who Made History Share Experiences with Violence and Abuse

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revised from 2/22/16 Dorothy Dandridge When the Beyhive stings, it is in part because they are tired of losing talented Black women to racism.   Women like, Dorothy Dandridge.  But for racism, she would have had a career on par with Ava Gardner and Marilyn Monroe.  I first discovered this beautiful woman in middle school.    It was either Ebony or Essence magazine that had done a feature story on

Silent Lies: Why Black Women Must Continue to Lead the Resistance

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“I learned how to stand up for myself from the civil rights movement. We learned from you.”   Original post appeared 7/22/15 (updated) Tonya, did you know?   Those were the words spoken to me by the then reigning Ms. Wheelchair VA many, many years ago.    She and I had just presented a workshop together.  I must tell you, though due to her disability, she doesn’t speak clearly.   I

I Will Survive: How Survivor Gloria Gaynor Keeps Inspiring Decades After the Release of Grammy Winning Song

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At First I Was… When we have been wounded we must heal.  To do that, I think we all use a combination of tools.  Some of them are good for us.  Some of them ain’t, okay. Some days, I recall the alarm disrupting my sleep, and the sun rudely throwing light into my bedroom.  I didn’t feel like moving. I didn’t feel like talking. I didn’t want to separate my eyelids. I just didn’t

What Racists and Child Rape Apologists Have in Common

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People against progress would like you to think that systemic rape of women of color ended with slavery.   That is categorically untrue.   Victims/Survivors know it.    The perpetrators know it.   And, our “allies” of all shades and genders know it.   But on this first day of Black History Month I would like to honor a brave soul who fought against it with all that she had.  

Caught in the Hive: The Youth Lead

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Online Web Conference: Building a Movement to End Child Sexual Abuse                          Sexual Violence Zachary Miller wants to give hope to other survivors of child sexual abuse Congratulations to this courageous young Survivor! Boys’ club ‘a sitting duck’ for child sexual abuse, Anglican ex-priest and paedophile says I would add that any poorly managed/monitored group or family is a sitting

Survivors Breaking the Rules and Telling the Truth about Healing

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Today, my mind is tough, resilient, empathetic, compassionate, kind, loving, strategic, and wise. My physical health is a mess.  I have my experiences with rape as a child to thank for that. Every time that I see the headlines panicking about the next health crisis that is out of control I do wonder if they are asking these people whether or not they have suffered trauma. “Alcoholism in Women” “Pain

Driving Out Darkness with Your Light: An Affirmation for Survivors

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Is it me or has 2016 been moving at warp speed?   I wrote on social media that it feels like I just met this 2016 person and things are moving a little too fast here. So maybe it isn’t the speed as much as it is the quality.    To tell you the truth, 2016 has a lot of baggage, drama, and darkness. 2015 was like this at times, yes,

From All Angles: 4 Ways Survivor Speakers Can Help Folks Heal, Know, & Grow

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Domestic and Sexual Violence are tough issues to discuss.  BUT, thankfully, speakers have quite a few options for approaching the topic.  In this blog post, I just list four.   Trust me, there are so many styles and tools at a speaker’s disposal.  You are only limited by the ceiling of your creativity, and your courage.  Alright y’all, here are the four…….   Storytelling/Dramatic:     Since the beginning of time elders,

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Financial Cost of Abuse Stopabusecampaign.com: The Cost of Child Sexual Abuse:  As expensive as child sexual abuse is for the Catholic church, it’s more expensive for taxpayers MaleSurvivor.org:  Child Abuse and Neglect Cost the U.S. $124 Billion dollars. Trafficking ArkofHopeforChildren.org: Child Sex Trade in America Celebrity/Fame  TheAtlantic.com:  Bill Cosby and His Enablers Survivor Issues Survivors are not going to always agree on how we deal with our issues.  One issue of

Another Definition of Living in the Moment for Survivors

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Last night there was another awards show in Hollywood.  Don’t we love those?  Even if we don’t watch them, we just love looking at the fashions.  That whole Best and Worst list.  The hairstyles.  Jewelry.  Most of us will never buy it, but it is nice to see.Red carpet shopping.  Well, last night, an actress won yet another award for her acting talent. She is 25, pretty, and appeals to a

Want More Joy in 2016?

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Readers, we are HERE! 2016! Let us be excited for great things to arrive.   25  New year’s RESOLUTIONs That will Bring you More Joy in 2016 A fresh year gives you the opportunity to make resolutions that will make your life happier in the upcoming year.  Theplans you make for the next year matter, so you’ll want to carefully consider your resolutions.  Consider these resolutions to fill your life

Celebrities Called on the Carpet:  WE Survive Abuse 5 Best Posts of 2015

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I don’t mind addressing celebrities in relation to  issues of domestic & sexual violence who use their platforms to shame, intimidate, or otherwise bully alleged and/or actual victims. I don’t like that there is a necessity for it in this society.  I don’t like that other groups and organizations remain selectively silent about some celebrities while extremely vocal about others. However, celebrities know very well what they are doing when they

Silent Lies: Why Black Women Must Continue to Lead the Resistance

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I am thankful for every single reader, whether you agreed or disagreed.  Whether you liked a post or hated a post.  We sought to educate, inform, and start conversations.   When it comes to domestic and sexual violence, it is just too silent. In 2015 some of our most popular posts were our quotes. We reviewed the numbers and the feedback.  Here were the reader’s favorites:  And Justice for…..  7 Great Quotes on Authentic Justice