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Survivor Affirmation: Chaos Encourages Me to Practice Centering Behaviors

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Tonya is a Social Justice Info Expert with over 23 years experience. She holds a BS in Organizational Management & Development. Her cat MiaBelle is her co-writer.
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Chaos encourages me to practice centering behaviors. Each chaotic situation I encounter gives me a chance to develop new skills, new lessons, and new insights.Instead of reacting negatively to the noise around me, I step into the shadows, close my eyes, and bring peace to my inner world. Meditation keeps me grounded throughout even the toughest situations.When I take time each day to close my eyes and breathe, I become

5 Effective Tips to Help Safe Father Figures Protect Loved Ones from Child Sexual Abuse

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Safe father figures can be very effective at helping to prevent the spread the epidemic of child sexual abuse. Here are just five effective tips to help them get started today. Be aware that children can be victims of manipulation tactics.  One common tactic used by child sexual abusers involves pushing away the safe father figures in their lives.  Safe father figures may miss this, though.  I have come to

How Survivors Find Their Voices and Help Others: Shanika Sealy

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Survivors of oppression and/or violence are the most inspiring people I that I have encountered in life!Creating ways to survive and finding their own voices when everyone around them; friends, foe, and allies, want them to keep silent.I was honored to interview Survivor Shanika Sealy. She found her voice in spite of the pressure to keep silent while writing her book, Please Help Me, Santa. Here is the video:

Survivor Affirmation: I Exemplify Brotherly Love

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I exemplify brotherly love. Brotherly love means looking out for others as if they are family. That thought guides my interactions with each person I come across. My actions towards friends and strangers alike exemplify brotherly love. I embrace opportunities to provide emotional support to those I interact with. When I provide a listening ear, it helps others to lift difficult burdens. They feel cared for. I like to share

He Went That Way: The Dirty Truth about Celebrities & Famous People Who Habitually Moralize Off the Backs of the Oppressed

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Child’s PlaybookAs a kid, I saw two children playing. A girl, Terry* and her younger brother Damon*. Damon was always getting in trouble for bothering Terry.  Of course, he always said it was Terry. Look, Damon was like Dennis the Menace. It was hard for me to believe anything that he said.  Until I saw what I saw. I was sitting down on the couch in the living room, reading a book.  The

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I Tried One day years ago I was trying to make it through a challenge.   In order to get through it I came up with a solution. I was going to flood my mind with positive words.  I chose to listen to my pastor’s sermons every time that I was in the car, which happened to be for long periods of time back then.   It wasn’t working.   The

How to Get Your Children Summer Ready to Avoid Sex Offenders

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Summer Vacation Can Be Dangerous  Is it summer again already?This time of year concerns me.I can tell you from personal experience that predators who prey on children love this time of year.  Everyone is looking for new arrangements for children who used to be in school all day. Single moms, grandparents, athletic groups, camps, faith group activities, babysitters, -predators are hiding in plain sight. I know.  This time of year the

A Lesson From Survivors: The Experiences of Others

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I view the experiences of others as life lessons for myself. I always consider the experiences of others to be opportunities to carve out a path for my life. One of the advantages of co-existing on this Earth is learning from each other.  Each face I look into tells a story that can have a profound impact on my life. Every day is a learning experience for me. I am

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How Survivors Knew About Bill Cosby before the Rest of the World

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You can imagine that being my child means that you hear a whole lot of quotes, stories, lessons and such.  On repeat. So you better believe that when I make an error my son takes the opportunity to call it out. Like that  when someone cut me off in traffic and I let my usual semi-curse word float out of my mouth. Except this time….. I forgot that there was a toddler

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FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE How to Get Away with Contributing to the Culture of Silence around Sexual Violence on National Television like ABC 20/20   Some viewers were shocked and appalled by ABC 20/20’s coverage of the 13 Survivors of convicted rapist Daniel Holztclaw who targeted black women while he worked as an Oklahoma City police officer.  In fact, founder of WESurviveAbuse.com, Tonya GJ Prince, found this piece of journalism ignorant,

Explain Like I'm 5: What victims of domestic violence go through to get justice

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I originally posted this on 9/3/15. On 5/16/2016 I aided a victim in DC and unfortunately this is still true.  Why doesn’t she leave?   This question annoys me to no end.   When you talk to someone about domestic violence you come to expect that question.   There are a lot of reasons.   But just like with rape, and child sexual abuse victims, just because you come forward and report

Survivor Affirmation: I Value Wise Counseling

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I value wise counseling. In times of confusion, wise words enable me to stay grounded like the anchor on a ship. Instead of being swayed by every wind that comes my way, I seek the advice of experienced people.  Seeking wisdom keeps me from wandering in the vast ocean of opportunities. I listen to my trusted advisers and consider their advice. I use their ideas as a springboard for forming my