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Did You Hear the Joke about Blue Ivy, Brown Girls & Sexual Abuse? ME NEITHER

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Tonya is a Social Justice Info Expert with over 23 years experience. She holds a BS in Organizational Management & Development. Her cat MiaBelle is her co-writer.
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People have read my writing or seen me speak publically and they are often surprised at how different I can be in social situations.   In real life, I have been known to be so quiet in a room filled with people that others have told me that they were uncomfortable. I’m just an introvert.   The real party is always in our heads. This summer a fellow child sexual abuse prevention

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What You Must Know About Campus Sexual Assault Right Now

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When I checked out the news this morning, there was a story about a sexual assault on a well known university near my home.  Sigh….. It is that time of year again isn’t it?  So I decided to share with readers a page that they can bookmark and get a great deal of information from.  I wanted to save you some search engine time.   In this post I have

The Secret for Ending the Cycle of Abusive Relationships and Finding the Healthy One

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A few years ago I went to a few Washington Wizards games with my son. Now, I’m not big on sports.  My poor son had to explain every single moment of the game.    I’m not sure of the details, but I understand that in basketball, rebounds can be a good thing.  All I know is that when it happens the crowd goes wild.  I think it is like some

World Wide Web Roundup for Survivors, Allies, and Friends

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This week we have headlines, a tool kit, latest research studies, and a “new to me” online resource. HEADLINES  FBI: Child Abuse ‘Almost at an Epidemic Level’ in U.S.Tens of thousands of children are being sexually exploited each year in the U.S., according to an investigation by the BBC.Is it easier to open up about sexual abuse online by Divya Kaushik Jehovah’s Witnesses Cover Up Child Sex Abuse and Oust a

5 Reasons Why I Wish Racism was a Mental Health Disorder

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Updated: Oh for goodness sakes! I  keep hearing this stuff buzzing around again.  Every time certain folks commit violent crimes people start up with mental illness as a reason. Let me say this.  Most people with mental health disorders have the deepest capacity for empathy that I have ever seen.  There is no rush to forgive. No rush to heal. No rush to forget.If you’ve never been to a multi-racial support

The Great Submission Hoax

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Imagine being in a room of, I don’t know, 30-50 people, and you hear this:   “Oh my goodness, that sounds sooo hard. What do you think we should do about this?”  No, it wasn’t something dirty. But then again….. I don’t know.  I’m still messed up about it. We were doing dirty work. Social justice work is indeed dirty work. But not that kind of dirty. It was a training/retreat.  Nice

Tellin Ya Something Good Tuesday: Stop It Now Prevention Tools

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Featured Resource:  Stop It Now is one of my favorite resources for parents, teachers, caretakers-everybody! I am devoting this post to their library of Prevention Tools.  You must check it out.  They have printable tip sheets for families, daycare safety, warning signs, and talking tips. They also offer guidebooks. Please stop by.  Bookmark this page.  Sign up for their updates.  Print out the tip sheets.    This information is so

What a Difference a Voice Makes

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I am the most talkative of my mother’s three children.  I think that is how I began to write.  Part enjoyment, but yeah, part necessity.   I was wearing people out.   But it wasn’t until the age of 19/20 that I came into my voice. I remember looking at Marilyn Van Derbur’s professional headshot in the local newspaper of my townie southern city.  I don’t know why, but I

World Wide Roundup of This Week's Best Online Content Related to Rape & Abuse

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Come under the Light The Sex Abuse to Prison Pipeline: How Girls of Color are Unjustly Arrested and Incarcerated Why Aren’t More Crisis Hotlines Offering Chat-Based Help? New Tool Will Soon Be Available Aimed At Helping Parents of Sexually Abused Kids Empathy is Actually a Choice Health and Wellness 10 Ways to Take Care of Ourselves When We’re Suffering From Burnout This Is the Reason Migraines Affect Sex Abuse Survivors Why

6 Quotes to Refill Survivors When Society Drains Us

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I was so drained this weekend.  But it is going to be alright. All of this fragmented knowledge about sexual violence is wearing me out! As the beloved old folks around my way used to say, “Look at you, all loud and wrong.”  And that meant they were through entertaining your foolishness.  Listen, if you are like me, you are drained.  So let us power up.

My Mama said Keep Slaying these Dragons

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Y’all my Mom wrote me a permission slip this morning.     It means the entire world to me. This afternoon during my reflection time, I felt the full value of her words.   My mother read my most recent blog posts and she said to me, “You keep slaying those dragons.  There are still more being born today so you better slay.”   YES!   In all the many thousands

4 Critical Takeaways from the Bill Cosby Tragedy for Celeb Pals, Fans, & the Public

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So celebrities are still throwing their vocal public support behind accused rapists and child sexual abusers, hunh?     Barbra Walters (Woody Allen), Les Brown, Jill Scott, Ben Vereen, Phylicia Rashad, etc. Update: I had left out Whoopi Goldberg.  Well, I went back and forth but initially I decided that since she gets paid to give her opinion I will leave her out. And I didn’t think that her first statement “attacked”